This semi-open* group consists of a series of 15 weekly meetings lasting 2.5 hours and includes a maximum of 6 participants. All men experience the same problem, want to take charge of themselves and want to stop being violent with their intimate partners, children or otherwise. A clear therapeutic contract is made with each of them. These group meetings are focused on stopping domestic and family violence.
The process includes periods of centering, education and discussion. It is in a spirit of mutual aid and support that everyone will be able to share their views on the session, on the evolution of the members and on the achievement of its initial objectives.
Goals :
- Be supported in the process
- Develop self-esteem (build self trust)
- Develop communication skills, talk about your emotions, feelings and needs
- Realize the fact that he is no longer alone with his suffering
- Express all of your emotional states (not just anger)
- Confront together the rationale that justified violence until now
- Learn to manage your frustration and anger
- Become aware of traditional stereotypes of men
- Change your role as victim
- Identify situations where there is a takeover
- Identify the escalation of violence and learn to withdraw before taking action (“time out”)
- Recognize responsibility for the control he exercises over the other partner and/his children
- Share common experiences
- Breaking the isolation
- To live based on learning situations and the integration of new skills which will allow them to react to situations, to express real discomfort or a need to resolve conflicts without having to resort to violence.
- Connecting with emotional states and expressing them appropriately
- Getting men to change their behavior